Rafal Pstrucha
Mentor — not a therapist

You don't need fixing. You need direction — from a man who has lived it.

I work with men aged 40–60 through hard transitions: career collapse, divorce, emigration, and the years stuck between raising children and caring for ageing parents.

Book an Initial Conversation — £95
English · Polski · Português  —  I've been through it in three languages.

On paper, you've made it. Career, family, people counting on you. And quietly, something is coming apart — the work has stopped meaning anything, the marriage has gone silent, your parents are ageing in another country, or you simply no longer recognise the man in the mirror. You've probably tried therapy — and you already know it isn't what you're looking for.

Rafal Pstrucha
Who I am

Direction from someone who has been through it — not treatment.

I am a mentor, not a therapist. MSc Psychology, LLM, PhD in Law candidate, 37 years in business — through betrayal, divorce and rebuilding. Native in English, Polish and Brazilian Portuguese. I don't treat clinical conditions. If that is what you need, I'll tell you plainly and help you find it.

How we work

Three steps. No packages you didn't ask for.

I

Initial Conversation £95

Thirty minutes to see whether there's fit. Credited toward the Audit if you decide to continue.

II

The Audit £900–1,500

A structured read of where you actually are — work, money, marriage, family, identity — and what has to move first. You leave with a written map: your situation, the priorities, the risks, and your next move. Yours to keep, whether or not we work further.

III

The Programme Bespoke

Sustained work across the transition, built entirely around your situation — not a curriculum.

Emergency sessions, programmes, VIP days and retainers are shaped and priced after the Audit.

For therapists & solicitors

Somewhere to send the men you can't take further.

If you work with men whose lives are in transition — through divorce, collapse or crisis — and you need somewhere to send them for direction rather than treatment, let's talk. I take referrals, and I refer back when clinical or legal help is what's needed.

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Rafal Pstrucha — mentor to men in transition
Rafal Pstrucha